Resources for You

From online webinars, to building community, to online dating to sensory profiles and sex- we've got you covered.

Courses

  • $44.99 or 2 monthly payments of $22.50

Exploring Your Sensory Sexuality Diet- Webinar

  • Course
  • 2 Lessons
  • Includes 1 additional product

Intimacy doesn't have to feel overwhelming. Understand how your 8 sensory systems show up in sexual & intimate spaces, identify your sensory profile (seeking, sensitive, avoiding, low registration) & learn to ask for what you need without shame. 30-min webinar + practical templates to create your Sensory Sexuality Diet. For disabled/neurodivergent folks & the professionals who support you. Includes PD certificate.

Includes 1 Additional Product

  • $199.99 or 3 monthly payments of $66.66

The Perfectly Imperfect Professional

  • Course
  • 16 Lessons

A self-paced course to help you build a career that fits your brain, energy & values. Learn to work in a way that actually works for you. A little bit wiggly. A space to be in-progress, not perfect. Map your nonlinear path, work sustainably, honour your strengths & understand what your brain's telling you. 15 modules, 40+ resources, built-in community. For neurodivergent professionals. PD Certificate upon completion.

Digital downloads

  • Free

Condom Education Starter Guide (Free Sample)

  • Download
  • 1 file

A preview of the full Session Starter Kit. Get practical facilitation strategies, PDA-informed approaches, and learner-led techniques that work for neurodivergent and disabled communities.

  • $19.99

Condom Education Session Starter Kit

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  • 1 file

This toolkit gives you everything you need to facilitate confident, trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming condom education. What's inside: Visual resource guide with photos of the exact products I use Where to buy each resource (with links!) 3 ready-to-use activities with time estimates and facilitation tips Theory behind each activity (developmental education + sexology) PDA-informed approaches

  • Free

Online Dating and Staying Safe Guide

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  • 1 file

Whether you're new to online dating, getting back out there, or supporting someone who is, this guide is for you. Covers how dating apps work, spotting scams and fake profiles, building genuine connections, safety planning for meeting in person, managing your energy, and understanding consent and boundaries online. Easy-read format, practical advice, and a tone that respects your autonomy.

  • $19.99

The Spoon Theory Guide to Dating and Sex

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  • 1 file

For low-energy lovers, neurodivergent daters & authentic human connection. Tired of dating advice that doesn’t account for chronic illness, neurodivergence, or energy levels that fluctuate wildly? Same. That’s why this guide exists. Created by Niamh, a sexologist + developmental educator based on Kaurna Yerta (Adelaide), this digital resource is a gentle, practical, and playful toolkit for navigating dating your way.

  • $8.99

Sexuality Sensory Diet Ideas and Template

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  • 1 file

If you've ever felt: Overwhelmed by certain sensations during intimacy Unsure how to ask for what actually feels good Confused about why some touch feels amazing and other touch feels awful This resource is for you. Your body knows what it wants—this guide helps you listen. Map your sensory profile across 8 senses to design intimacy that feels safe, pleasurable & authentically yours. For neurodivergent

  • $21.99

Holding Yourself Gently: A Self-Compassion Workbook for Neurodivergent Folks

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  • 2 files

You don't have to have it all figured out. This PDF fillable and printable self-compassion workbook meets you exactly where you are- navigating relationships, sexuality & self-doubt. Unpack internalised ableism, map empowering & disempowering voices, explore your access needs for pleasure & build autonomy at your own pace. 25+ pages of reflections, activities & real scenarios. 2 files included, 1 PDF, 1 for print.

  • Free

Online Dating Checklist

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  • 1 file

Get Your FREE Dating Safety Checklist from My Friend in Sex Ed! Perfect for: • First-time dating app users • Anyone returning to dating • People wanting extra safety tools • Disabled and neurodivergent individuals looking for dating-specific guidance Download your FREE checklist now and take the first step toward safer, more confident online dating!

  • $32.99

Self-Discovery Bundle- You Don't Need to Fix Yourself to Deserve Pleasure

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  • 1 file

You don't need to fix yourself to deserve pleasure. This bundle gives you the tools to understand what you actually need, not what you "should" want. 3 resources, 1 bundle- Circle of Control for clarity, Sexual Dopamenu for dopamine-seeking brains & Sexuality Sensory Diet for honouring your nervous system. Use them solo or together. Stop shrinking your needs. Start asking for what feels good. You're worth it.

A resource list from me to you

There are lots of brilliant resources out there waiting for you to discover them! I've compiled a live list for you- last updated October 2025.

  1. Spark Connection: DE and Sexologists Alicia and Niamh created evidence-based professional development and events that make the complex feel manageable - with warmth, expertise, and just the right amount of cheekiness
    Find Out More: https://www.sparkconnection.com.au/

  2. Yellow Ladybugs: Autistic-led organisation providing autism-specific resources, including their resources on sexual violence prevention and relationships designed specifically for autistic girls and women.
    https://www.yellowladybugs.com.au/

  3. Planet Puberty: A comprehensive online hub offering age-appropriate, disability-inclusive puberty education with easy-to-understand language and visual supports.
    https://www.planetpuberty.org.au/

  4. SECCA: Specialised sexuality education service providing accessible resources and tools for people with disabilities, including their comprehensive workbooks.
    https://www.secca.org.au/

  5. Sexual Health Victoria: Evidence-based sexual health information with specific disability resources and inclusive education materials.
    https://shvic.org.au/

  6. SACID (SA Council on Intellectual Disability): Self-advocacy focused resources supporting people with intellectual disabilities to make informed choices about relationships and sexuality.
    https://sacid.org.au/

  7. Talk Soon Talk Often: Parent-focused guide helping facilitate conversations about sexuality and relationships with clear, practical conversation starters.
    https://www.healthywa.wa.gov.au/articles/s_t/talk-soon-talk-often

  8. AMAZE: Engaging animated videos explaining complex topics in simple, clear ways with excellent visual supports.
    https://www.youtube.com/@amazeorg

  9. Family Planning NSW Decision Making Tool: Step-by-step supported decision-making resource helping individuals navigate choices about relationships and sexuality.
    https://www.fpnsw.org.au/factsheets/health-professionals/resources/supporting-decision-making-reproductive-and-sexual-health

  10. The Hunnybee Collective is a hub for inclusive sexual wellness education, resources, and support https://www.thehunnybeecollective.com.au/

Podcasts

  1. Disability After Dark: Hosted by Andrew Gurza

  2. A Wheelie Good Sex Chat: Hosted by Candice Care-Unger